Today is just one of those days... I got my hopes up and they were shattered again. I just wish someone would understand that once, just once, i would like for something to be done my way, or for my idea to be followed through with.
Today just sucks. I am over it.
Monday, August 31, 2009
Monday, August 24, 2009
Good/Bad Friend
It has been a while since i posted but my mind has been in so many places.
I told her not to marry him!!! Am i a bad friend for saying it, an honest friend for always telling her the truth? I don't know.
I am talking about the one friend who has always been there for me, the one who knows my every little secret. They have been in each others lives for over 15 years. He was her first real love and was there for her when her marriage ended, He has been a wonderful step - father to her daughter, but I can't shake the feeling he is not the same person he was, that there is something deeper going on (sleeping with an ex-coworker).
He finally proposed a couple of months ago (just as she was about to leave)... She said yes, rang me to tell me...my response was "what, why?"
I truly believe there is a difference between loving someone and really being in love with someone. I know her like the back of my hand, I think she loves him for all that they have been through and not in love with man that he has become and i really think it will be a mistake so i told her.
I have this feeling it might come back to bite me in the arse even though she told me she loves me for being honest.
Don't get me wrong i think he is a nice person, just not the person for her anymore.
I will be by her side if she ends it and standing next to her as she marries him. The choice is hers. I still don't know... Good/Bad friend??
I told her not to marry him!!! Am i a bad friend for saying it, an honest friend for always telling her the truth? I don't know.
I am talking about the one friend who has always been there for me, the one who knows my every little secret. They have been in each others lives for over 15 years. He was her first real love and was there for her when her marriage ended, He has been a wonderful step - father to her daughter, but I can't shake the feeling he is not the same person he was, that there is something deeper going on (sleeping with an ex-coworker).
He finally proposed a couple of months ago (just as she was about to leave)... She said yes, rang me to tell me...my response was "what, why?"
I truly believe there is a difference between loving someone and really being in love with someone. I know her like the back of my hand, I think she loves him for all that they have been through and not in love with man that he has become and i really think it will be a mistake so i told her.
I have this feeling it might come back to bite me in the arse even though she told me she loves me for being honest.
Don't get me wrong i think he is a nice person, just not the person for her anymore.
I will be by her side if she ends it and standing next to her as she marries him. The choice is hers. I still don't know... Good/Bad friend??
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
FUN
Feels like forever since i have written anything on here (probably cause it has been forever).
I am going to see PINK tomorrow night on the last leg of her FUNHOUSE tour and i can't wait. I have had these tickets for nearly a year.
Well, i found out on Friday that within the next 12 weeks my girl will be going in for Oral Surgery due to a defect in two of her back molars causing two of them to become very damaged. I am not looking forward to her being under a general anesthetic. That is not going to be fun!!!!
Well off to do housework!
I am going to see PINK tomorrow night on the last leg of her FUNHOUSE tour and i can't wait. I have had these tickets for nearly a year.
Well, i found out on Friday that within the next 12 weeks my girl will be going in for Oral Surgery due to a defect in two of her back molars causing two of them to become very damaged. I am not looking forward to her being under a general anesthetic. That is not going to be fun!!!!
Well off to do housework!
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